I, I wish you could swim
Like the dolphins, like dolphins can swim
Though nothing, nothing will keep us together
We can beat them, for ever and ever
Oh we can be heroes, just for one day.
(se llama Encantados y lo pinta Jemma Salume)
Among the many joys I experience as a Dom is the empowerment to simply take my time and truly enjoy the beauty of an experience. No longer do I feel rushed to embrace a moment before it passes me by. No longer do I feel a desperation to grasp what is within my reach for fear of it slipping away. No longer do I have a sense of urgency to take or give and in so doing prove myself to the donor or recipient. No. Today I take quite the opposite tack and savor the gifts of a moment and prolong it as much as possible.
The power that is granted me by a submissive is not just the power to command action or inaction but also the power to elongate time. When she stands or kneels before me I have no reason to rush, no deadline to meet, no goal that must be achieved. Indeed, I am granted all the time I want to relish in the beauty and privilege before me. Why rush to touch, take, or command, when perhaps the greatest pleasure can be had in simply sitting back and taking it all in? Why not bathe myself in the aura of the power you give me and savor the tension, anticipation, and sometimes even fear that emanates from the moment? Why rush headlong into the next moment when the present is so very, very satisfying?
So I just sit back and relax. Allow the moment to bathe me in its power. Feel the significance of the present and in so doing heighten her awareness of my power and its ability to alter the future. The longer I sit in repose, the more powerful I feel. The more powerful I feel, the greater her sense of submission. The greater her sense of submission, the greater my power. It is one magnificent and ever-growing loop of energy.
I need not flail. I need not possess. I need not caress. I need only sit back in silence and appreciate the beauty, majesty and aura of the submission before me and bask in the glow of the power it affords me. From a distance.
Projected power. I project and she absorbs. Plenty of time for all else. Later.
Caption © For The Love of a Submissive, 2012
You crave this don’t you
holy hannah! I TOTALLY crave this and need this and want this and crave this and .. oh. my bad.
“shut the fuck up, these panties are coming off. now.”